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You

You are everything to me.

Like a ray of sun into my soul, you make my heart smile.

You give me warmth and strength like no other.

You are better than I ever imagined.

You are always there for me.

You make everything right.

You support me on my crazy adventures, when I would have given up on me long before.

You are home.

You make me happy beyond belief.

Seeing your handsome face, your smile, you laughing – a cure for everything.

You’re hilarious, in an awesomely hilarious way. You’re clever, and witty, and funny.

You always have the most amazing ideas.

I am in awe of your intelligence.

Your arms were built to hold me. You make me feel safe.

You are my best friend.

Nothing else matters when we’re together.

Your kisses are magic.

You adore me, and I you.

You are an amazing father. You make us a family.

Thank you for knowing we were more than just friends, when didn’t know it myself.

I’m so glad you’re mine.

Forever is not long enough.

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xxx

Let it Snow!

I moved house again on Monday and Tuesday (that’s another story), but amidst all the packing, moving, and cleaning, I managed to find a small miracle – it snowed in Tokyo! Apparently it doesn’t happen all that often (once or twice a year at most), but when you’ve spent your whole life living in a city where it never snows, it’s a truly magical experience :)

Some photos from the past few days.

Snow

Snow

Snow

Snow

Snow in the Graveyard

Snow in the Graveyard

Snow on the Rooftop

Snow on the Rooftop

Sidewalk Snow

Sidewalk Snow

Weather Forecast - Snow

Weather Forecast - Snow

Working Hard for the Money

I’ve realised that me being in Japan may not make sense to everyone, so in case you’re wondering why I’m currently living in the land of the rising sun, let me shed some light on it for you. There were main three reasons for me making the move to Japan:

  1. Life experience – I’ve always wanted to live overseas.
  2. Fascination – after studying Japanese (for two years in primary school, and five years in high school), and coming here on a school trip when I was 16, I’ve always wanted to come back at some stage.
  3. Career – in my wisdom, somewhere along the line I thought I might like to be a teacher. So I combined that idea with points 1 & 2, and here I am :)

After arriving here in the first week of December, and applying for numerous teaching positions, I finally found out on Christmas Eve that G.education had offered me a part-time position with their company. They gave me until the first week of January to make up my mind about the offer, which came in very handy. It was less hours than I had planned on doing, and much less money (by a long shot!), so it did need careful consideration. But after much debate, and given it was the only job offer I’d had, I decided to accept. Training was scheduled for the following week, and the process had begun.

Training was full on. Three 8-hour days (well, 12-8:30pm) were pretty hard slog, but I could tell right away that it was going to be great. Having done practical teaching experience in Australia before I left definitely came in handy, but their system is slightly different to the one I’d learnt through Teach International, so I still had a lot to learn. And they threw us in at the deep end – we (the three trainees) were team-teaching a lesson on the first day! And when the second day rolled around, we were told that we had to prepare for four lessons that day. I was shitting myself, but the lessons went well, and I got some really good feedback (both from the students, and the trainers), so it seemed to be quite successful overall.

By the third day we were exhausted, and I was pleased to find out we had Level Assessment training (learning how to place students into the appropriate levels) for the first part of the day, and only two 40 minute lessons to teach later that evening. But it was still tiring, and I arrived home at 10pm completely exhausted.

No rest for the wicked though. I was scheduled to teach my first day on the job the very next day. Admittedly, my Friday shift is only 5 lessons starting at 1:20, so I was given somewhat of a reprieve in the morning. But I needed the extra time to catch up on some rest, and make the almost-hour long journey to my branch. The next week would see me teach at four different schools, as well as having two days off for accruing too many hours due to the initial training. And although not every lesson goes to plan, I feel the training has made me well prepared to teach conversational English.

The Japanese-speaking staff at the branches are extremely friendly, and are always keen to practice their English too. I’ve met some really interesting characters along the way (picture 60+ year old lady who loves mountaineering, and almost died after falling while traversing a glacier!), and it’s been a great start to my potential teaching career.

Oh – and possibly the best thing -  I get to wear slippers at work :)

Slippers

Wearing Slippers at Work

Christmas in Tokyo

New Year's Eve

New Year's Eve

Sorry. I lied. This post isn’t about Christmas in Tokyo, because we all know that was pretty much a non-event for me. Instead, this will be focused on the events following Christmas, which were much more pleasant for everyone involved.

Ok, let’s just backtrack a little. There were some things I forgot to mention about Christmas that turned out to be kinda good. I mentioned in the previous post that there was no mirror in the apartment I’d moved into. Well, sometime on Christmas afternoon, an old Japanese man turns up and proceeds to let himself into the apartment. I think he was more surprised to see me here than I was to discover an intruder. However, he managed to convey (and I managed to understand) that he was here to install a mirror for me! I’d heard some drilling noises about an hour earlier, and thought nothing of it. So it must have just been scheduled for a few of the apartments here. Nevertheless, it definitely lifted my mood :)

So after I recovered from that excitement, I decided to venture up to the next subway stop for acquisition of comfort foods. Another good thing about Christmas in Japan is the fact they don’t recognise it as a holiday. Why is that good? Well, it means that it’s business as usual == shops are all open! And I even discovered a Body Shop store at the station, along with some small clothing stores, and a few cafes. If I’d had more time and energy, I would have gone to a bigger hub (like Shibuya or Shinjuku), but I had to get home in time to catch up with Rich and our friends, Glenn & Sandra, for reality TV night – the Survivor finale was yet to be watched!

Have I mentioned how much I <3 Skype yet? Because I do. So very, very much :)

Reality TV night done, I was overjoyed to say goodbye to Rich as he left for the airport. I know I’d only been in Japan for three weeks, but it seemed like so much longer. And knowing that I’d be seeing my sweetheart in 12 hours was the bestest feeling ever! I couldn’t sleep that night (not surprising), and although I made all effort to get up on time, and get to the train station on time, I couldn’t prevent his flight arriving 30 minutes earlier. Nor could I prevent the second (of four) trains arriving at the station 1 minute late, and me missing the connecting train by all of 10 seconds. I felt ill knowing that he’d arrive and I wouldn’t be there. I started to panic, and faught back tears for a long time, but I knew there was nothing I could do. I also hoped that the excitement of coming here would tide him over until I got to the airport.

And with at least 45 minutes of my journey still to go, I received an email from Rich saying his plane had landed, and he’d be making his way through customs as soon as he could. After explaining the situation, he told me not to worry, and reassured me he would be OK until I arrived. He promptly found a Starbucks to occupy his time (and fill his coffee hole) while he waited for me.

Words cannot express the sheer overwhelming joy and happiness at seeing your lover, in the flesh, for the first time in forever. Your heart races, your breath quickens, a smile appears that doesn’t seem go away for days. It was one of the most magical experiences ever. And that first hug and kiss? So familiar, yet so new, all at the same time. They do say that absence makes the heart grow fonder, and that was definitely true for us.

The next 9 days were entirely wonderful. There’s no doubt Japan is an exciting place to visit, but when you’ve got someone special to share it with, it makes the experience so much better! I took Rich to my favourite places, and we saw a lot of new things too. Our adventures have been documented on his Flickr and mine, and although a picture can tell a thousand words, it’s probably better if I fill you in on the rest.

Shibuya: Quite possibly my favourite place in Japan (so far). Rich and I went there on numerous occasions during his visit, and it was always good. There are a myriad of shops catering to all your needs. From high-end to budget-basement – they have it all. Not to mention the awesome selection of eateries and watering holes. Something for every taste: pizza, pasta, sushi, noodles galore! There’s even an aquarium restaurant where you can be surrounded by fish while you eat… fish, no doubt. Ok, that sounds a little weird, but that’s the essence of Japan! And let’s not forget the Love Hotels. Grab your loved one (or consenting adult), wander through the hills until you find an establishment to your liking, and then decide if you’re there for a “stay” (overnight) or just a “rest” (three hours). Some hotels let you hire costumes, while others are quite basic. But you will need to know a little Japanese to get access to them, or at least pretend you do (nod and say, “hai!” all the time).

Harajuku: Again, another place we went to on multiple occasions. The people-watching here is second to none, and there are streets and streets lined with all sorts of shops. We were extra lucky to experience some holiday street-vendors on New Year’s Night. Managed to sample some traditional, local delicacies, as well as plenty of tasty treats! The shopping district, parallel to the main strip, has quite a few crepe stands, and I highly recommend tryng any one of the cheesecake crepes :) Back on the main street there’s also Kiddy Land (5 floors of all things “toy”), and just around the corner from there is Blister for all your Bearbrick and Kubrick needs!

Disneyland: Was magical. Admittedly, we chose probably one of the most busiest days to go there, so the crowds were insane, and waiting times for rides were atrocious. Nevertheless, it is wonderful being able to relive your childhood again. And I was so happy Rich suggested we stay at the hotel there, because that is an experience I’ll never forget! The service was second to none, the staff were unbelievably friendly and helpful, and the hotel was immaculate! We stayed at the Disney Ambassador Hotel (the original hotel), and were on the 6th floor. Everything is Disney-themed, and they encourage you to take the hotel amenities home with you as souvenirs :D I’m currently using a pair of Mickey Mouse slippers as my inside-the-apartment footwear.

Tsukiji Fish Market: You will have to get up early to make the most of this experience, but it means you’ll beat the crowds if you do. We didn’t manage to catch the auctions, but arrived at some time around 7am I think. Got to see all the different seafood being prepared and sold. So many unusual creatures, and not the slightest bit fishy smelling, so it’s fine for those (like me) who are sensitive to overpowering smells ;) There are a number of sushi restaurants for dining, and we found a lovely little place that only seats about 16 customers at a time, so it’s possible you may have to wait. But, the fish is as fresh as you can get (if you’re so inclined), and although the chef was slightly dismayed to discover I didn’t eat seafood, he still prepared me a lovely tamago nigiri (omelette sushi) and cucumber maki (mini sushi) set. There’s nothing like fresh sushi at 8am for breakfast!

Subway: It may seem odd that I’m mentioning the subway and train system as a highlight of Rich’s trip to Tokyo, but it really can be fun. You get to see all the different sorts of characters that make up this wonderful city, and although we are both guilty of doing so ourselves, it’s hilarious to watch and laugh at the people falling asleep on the train :) Their train system is extremely efficient, and we never had to wait long for the next one to turn up. Even on New Year’s Eve the trains had been extended, so we could get home whenever we wanted. Plus, that’s where all the good vending machines are ;)

Akihabara: ELECTRONIC CITY!!! Yeah, you’d probably guess that Rich was excited about visiting Akihabara and all its electronic splendour, and you’d be right! We spent many hours wandering through the 8 floors of shopping goodness that is Yodobashi Camera. And as well as picking up some new glass for his Canon, Rich also managed to sample several of the tasty treats at Doughnut Plant, New York City ;) But not only do they cater to the technologically minded, they also offer an assortment of stores for those somewhat more on the deviant side. Seriously, every whim and fantasy are catered for. And if you’re not convinced, there was even some weird wheelchair figurine thing that had me totally confused :/

It was a wonderful nine days, albeit a short nine days, and we covered a lot of ground. But there aren’t words to express how unbelievably happy we were having that time together. And I probably don’t need to say that watching Rich walk through the departure gate at the airport was one of the most devastating experiences of my life. My only solace being knowing I’d be seeing him again in a few months. It may seem frivolous to some, but you can’t put a price on happiness, and neither of us would want to forego that experience for anything.

xx

2010

And so another year has begun! I honestly thought 2008 was the big year of change for me, but 2009 turned out to be an even bigger one. Quick recap of the major events which transpired:

  • finished working for Sensis, where I’d been employed for over 2 and a half years
  • moved house four times (eight times, across two countries, in two years!)
  • was “funemployed” for three months
  • moved to Japan to live and work (for up to a year)
  • realised that my relationship with a good friend was so much more than that

I write this sitting here in my new apartment in Tokyo. Now, when I say “new”, I really mean an old apartment that I’ve lived in for two weeks. I moved in on Christmas Eve (Dec 24th) after having stayed in a hostel cabin bed (read: cupboard) for three weeks, and was really excited about having a place of my own. I’d clearly been so excited that I overlooked several matters of importance: there was no bathroom sink; not a single mirror (or reflective surface) in the place; and the bath and shower unit resembled something like a German torture device (circa 1943), was devoid of water pressure, and painfully cold to bathe in.

Torture Device

Needless to say, Christmas 2009 is one I’d rather forget. Not only did I have the above to contend with, but I spent the day alone in this place, I had no presents, no friends or family to hug, no Christmas tree or decorations, nothing nice to eat, and it was bordering on freezing outside. I’m not usually one to feel sorry for myself, but this was an extremely low point of my Japanese adventure to date. I did get to see all my family and loved ones via Skype during the day – even got to watch Rich’s Miss Five open her presents first thing in the morning – but that seemed to make it worse. Made me realise exactly what I’d given up, and what I was missing out on.

It’s funny. So many people said to me how brave I was before I left, and how much courage I had moving to another country by myself, but I dismissed their comments thinking there was nothing to it! And in all honesty, for the most part, I was right. But there have been some very trying times lately, and on more than one occasion, I’ve contemplated giving up and going home.

But I have a wonderful support network in Rich. I know I can contact him at any time of the day or night, and he always makes me feel better. He reminds me why I’m doing this, and what I wanted to achieve (although he’d desperately love me to come home). And I’ve got mum and Heather ready at a moment’s notice to take my call if need be too. Plus there’s always the huge network on Twitter and Facebook! I guess the thing that’s made this a little harder for me, is that I didn’t have a job or apartment lined up before I got here. So if I had time to do things differently, I would probably have organised a job before I left Perth. Having said that, it is much easier to interview for positions when you live in the country, and a lot of job ads stipulated that you must be here to apply for them. So I could have been limiting myself in that regard.

And on that topic, I was offered a job on Christmas Eve which I accepted this week! It’s a part-time position with G.education, who took over NOVA when they went bankrupt. They’re an English Language School, with both children and adult classes. I’ll be teaching Wednesday to Friday (1:20 – 5:40pm), and Saturday and Sunday (10 – 2pm), so that will leave me plenty of free time for other adventures, or to teach private tutoring. Training starts next week for three days, then I’ll teach my first class on Friday. I think once I get into a routine, things will become easier for me. It’s been weird being in a different country, but not really doing many touristy things. When I arrived, I think I took the approach that I lived here, and had plenty of time to do “stuff”, so there’s no need to rush and do it all now. Plus it’s not that much fun sightseeing on your own. So I’d rather wait for people to visit so we can see places together.

So 2010 is a new beginning on many fronts. I have (stupidly) decided to give Project52 a go, and really hope I can keep these posts up for the next year. Will be a good way for me to remember my time in Japan, and all the crazy adventures I’ll get up to at least :)

Remind me next time to tell you about the the wonderful holiday I had with Rich, when he visited me in Japan for 9 amazing days on December 26th.

xx

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