I went to the dentist this week. Not something I ever envisaged needing to do while living in Japan for only up to a year, especially given I had a check up mid-2009. But I did, and this is the story.
It started about a week after arriving in Japan, December 2009. On the top left side of my mouth: an inflamed, sore, raised, painful (and infected) gum. It took about 5 days to clear up, after which I noticed that the tooth it was near was now wobbly. *cue alarm bells*. I didn’t do anything about it then, but just kept an eye (and finger) on it to wait and see if it improved.
It didn’t.
And as of last week, I discovered that a few more teeth were now wobbly.
I guess you could say that by this point, I was more than a little worried about it. Did some research, and the internets told me that it was most likely something along the lines of periodontal disease. Not the most awesome thing thinking you could lose your teeth. And even worse knowing you’re in a foreign country, whose inhabitants give the Brits a run for their money with more than enough case studies to fill their own version of The Big Book of British Smiles.
After discussing it over with Rich (who’d already suggested, many times, I go see a dentist), I found some local dentists who spoke English, checked out their websites, contacted my travel insurance to see what was covered, then made an appointment.
I’ve never enjoyed going to the dentist. I had many fillings as a child, and to this day the sound of a drill sends shivers down my spine. But this dental experience wasn’t too bad at all. The dentist was reassuring, and she explained that my situation was quite urgent, but not untreatable. And when I expressed concern about losing teeth, she almost laughed, saying it wouldn’t happen. After the assistant took several photos, and a set of x-rays, the dentist began work on my mouth.
She discovered that almost half of my teeth – back, front, upper, and lower – were affected by gum disease. In the worst places, her pokey stick thing went in up to 8mm (3mm is acceptable). And she advised me that it would take quite a few treatments to get it all sorted out. Basically, there is a build up of tartar under the gum line, which is a breeding ground for bacteria. It causes the gum to pull away from the tooth, and for the bone to change, making pockets in the tooth sockets which is why the teeth feel wobbly. Hopefully, after they’ve been thoroughly cleaned, it’ll go back to normal.
This session she cleaned the area which was causing me the most concern and pain, and also inserted some antibiotics into the gum. I asked if it was possible I’d been brushing too hard, and she said, “no way!” The main cause of this was not flossing thoroughly, or regularly. Something I admit to being guilty of, mainly due to laziness. I’ve always brushed regularly, at least twice a day, but flossing is not something I ever did more than once a week. It just took too long, and I brushed well, so I never gave it much thought.
All that’s changed now.
Ever since about 10 years ago, I’d made it a habit to take my makeup off before going to bed every night. For a number of reasons. Firstly, I can get a bit OCD, and I hate going to bed with a face that feels dirty. Secondly, I hate waking up with panda eyes. And thirdly, I remember reading somewhere (trashy women’s magazine) that leaving your makeup on when you go to bed will make you age faster (or you look older). So it’s been a habit that’s paid off.
Now my routine includes flossing every night after brushing my teeth. I had been doing this much more often since finding the wobbly tooth, but obviously it was way too late!
I think the thing that’s pissed me off most about this is the fact I went to the dentist last year. But despite me telling them that some of my teeth were sore, and my front tooth appeared to have gotten longer (and gum seemed to have receded), he didn’t pick up that anything was wrong. Nor did he take x-rays. In fact, all he suggested was that I get $2,200 worth of cosmetic dentistry to improve the appearance of my teeth (which I did not take him up on). So now I’m having to spend extra money (travel insurance won’t cover all of this), months later, to get treated for something I’ve apparently had for a while.
Not. Happy. Jan.
But there’s not a lot else I can do other than following through with this treatment, and ensuring I floss daily from now on. Oh, and also bringing to your attention the fact you should be flossing every day too! It’s actually much more important than brushing (but you should still do that). Make sure you’ve got a good dentist, and if you’re ever in doubt, get a second opinion – I wish I had.

















Oh.My.God.
Between you and @Bel………and only this week I had a dream mine all fell out (I hate that dream).
I have been WAY better at flossing etc since her “Tooth” episode……….
but……..booking in to dentist tomorrow. Not to mention I am going to get my shit together and get the damned root canal on front tooth I have been avoiding.
This is like…………….my god the SECOND HORROR tooth story I have heard in about a month…………
Oh.My.God.
and thx for the heads up / tooths out thing!
Sue! Do not put it off any longer. *waggles finger*
Also, teeth falling out dreams usually mean death, change, rebirth etc. But only when you’re not already concerned about your teeth
Hope all goes well with your pegs!
I think this can also work both ways, recently, I had a dentist tell me I needed all three remaining wisdom teeth out, at least one root canal, and redid three fillings for me. In total the quote came to $5008.00.
A month and a half later, I’ve had one wisdom tooth out, the fillings she did are hurting and the other dentist can’t imagine why I would need the other wisdom teeth out much less a root canal. Revised bill? $1500.
Second opinions count. Trust your instinct.
Gah! Good on you for getting another opinion. I really should have listened to Rich earlier :/
Are you doing anything about the sore fillings?
xx
@Viennah I deffo need the root canal. No missing that one. had about 4 dentists tell me in last 10 years not to mention the evidence screaming at me from x-rays.
Pffft one tiny car crash smacking head into steering wheel………..I am less traumatised by the fact I broke my neck than I am by having a yellow / deaded front tooth and needing that kind of dental work
**whine**
Sign at my dentist’s office:
Teeth don’t fall out, gums drop them.
Accurate sign.
Not sure people are made fully aware of how important gums are to oral health. From a young age we’re told to brush properly, but how many children floss? I can’t remember the first time I did.
I’ve actually had a fifth opinion about my teeth. When I young a boy threw a hard ball at my mouth, it hit my lower jaw and caused damage to an adult tooth that was growing under my gum. When I was a teenager I went to four dentists and surgeons seeking advice, they quoted from $4000 to $9000 to fix it. Then a friend referred me to her brother who was a dentist, he said to wait, that the tooth would right itself, and costly/painful surgery could be avoided. He was right.
Oh, wow
Makes you wonder how many honest dentists there are out there who have your best interests at heart, rather than their own financial gain.
Either that, or they’re completely inexperienced! Even more of a concern.
Glad yours turned out for the best
Ok, ok, looking through my toiletries to find my floss I’ve used about twice in years…\
Good luck Luis!